2) Remembering Death
This ayah should startle you, but because people look at the actual ayah, they don't look into the meanings of that particular ayah, and consequently you will never reap the benefits of it.f Truth to say, if things like that do not make you think, then what the prophet (SAW) should. He (SAW) said:
"I used to forbid you from visiting the graves in the early part of Islam. But now I command you to visit them because they serve to remind you of the next life". Going to the graveyard should make you think about what would happen to you, as the prophet also said: " The grave is either a garden from the gardens of Paradise or a hole from the holes of Hell Fire". There are people in the graves who are calling out for help but there is no one to help. When Munkar and Nakir come and ask them, " Who is your Lord?", " What is your religion?", Who was that Prophet that was sent to you? they will simply be unable to answer!
Because of this we are encouraged to visit the graves. Although men are allowed, some scholars argue about whether the grave is prohibited to women, but that is the frequent visits that are prohibited due to women's sensitivity. Hence not regular visits, but women can go from time to time, as they need the reminder just as men do.
Sisters and brothers, if you ever want to overcome the hard heart that we all suffer from at some part of our life, we have to reflect on that life to come, since it is going to come, whether you like it or not. Reflecting on the process of death; the process of dying itself - how the souls are taken from the bodies of believers, as the Prophet (SAW) said "...Like water dropping from the spout of a bucket"; but for the disbelievers, "....Like silk being drawn over thorns", tearing away. That soul that ultimately fears Allah is taken in the next life into the Heavens and the angels of the Heavens will praise it. It will return the body and a Garden from Paradise will opened up to it and it will lie in that state till Resurrection. But for those whose hearts have hardened towards the remembrance of Allah, the soul will be barred entrance into the Heavens. It will be thrown back into the body. Their evil deeds will come before them as a horrible creature and they will suffer torments. A window of Hell will be open and the heat will be over them until Resurrection.
3) The Qur'an
The third way that we can soften our hearts is the Qur'an, as Allah has stated in Surah Hadid 57:16:
"Has not the time come for those who believe for their hearts to fear Allah when they hear theQur'an [dhikrullah here is in reference to the Qur'an] and what truth there is in it, so that they not be like those who received the Scripture before, but in the passage of time, their hearts became hard. And most of them are corrupt."
If we truly reflect on the Qur'an, it has the power to soften our hearts. Allah mentions about the Jiin who heard the Qur'an:
"Indeed we heard an amazing Qur'an; it guides us to Allah and we believe in it and we will set not partners besides Allah."
When we hear the recitation of the Qur'an we should ponder on the meaning of it. The Qur'an should not be a replacement of music that many of us used to listen to. These days people buy recordings of their favourite reciter, merely because of the beauty of the voice, so if you think about it logically, the Qur'an has become a sort of musical thing. Allah even tells us: "Will they not reflect on the meanings?"
The Qur'an is a book of guidance and we should benefit from the meanings and, re-asses how we deal with the Qur'an. We should be reading it regularly and not leaving it until Ramadhan. It doesn't matter if we don't finish the Qur'an in Ramadhan. For most of the Prophet's (SAW) life, he did not finish the Qur'an in Ramadhan. Most of the companions did not finish the reading of the Qur'an in Ramadhan. However sad it is, Ramadhan is not complete unless we read the whole Qur'an in Ramadhan. We hire reciters to recite the Qur'an at 100 miles an hour so much so that even the Arabic- speaking people can't figure out where in the Qu'ran the reciter is at.
This has become a precedence, finishing the Qur'an in Ramadhan and if you can finish it twice, even better! But this is not the Qur'an is for . The Qur'an is for reflection, so that when we hear it, as Allah says of the believers who hear the Qur'an recited, goose bumps come over their skins. It touches them and causes their heart to tremble : "Allah has revealed (from time to time) the most beautiful Message in the form of a Book, consistent with itself, yet repeating (its teaching in various aspects): the skins of those who fear their Lord tremble threat; then their skins and hearts do soften to the remembrance of Allah." 39:12
If when we listen to the Qur'an, we don't find this reaction of tears coming to our eyes, then we should force ourselves to cry. You may question why but it is because we need to respond to the Qur'an in this way. If we don't, we are frankly lost! This is the word of Allah, the only preserved word of all the revelations that were given from Adam till now. This is the word God preserved.
When we hear the recitation of the Qur'an we should ponder on the meaning of it. The Qur'an should not be a replacement of music that many of us used to listen to. These days people buy recordings of their favourite reciter, merely because of the beauty of the voice, so if you think about it logically, the Qur'an has become a sort of musical thing. Allah even tells us: "Will they not reflect on the meanings?"
The Qur'an is a book of guidance and we should benefit from the meanings and, re-asses how we deal with the Qur'an. We should be reading it regularly and not leaving it until Ramadhan. It doesn't matter if we don't finish the Qur'an in Ramadhan. For most of the Prophet's (SAW) life, he did not finish the Qur'an in Ramadhan. Most of the companions did not finish the reading of the Qur'an in Ramadhan. However sad it is, Ramadhan is not complete unless we read the whole Qur'an in Ramadhan. We hire reciters to recite the Qur'an at 100 miles an hour so much so that even the Arabic- speaking people can't figure out where in the Qu'ran the reciter is at.
This has become a precedence, finishing the Qur'an in Ramadhan and if you can finish it twice, even better! But this is not the Qur'an is for . The Qur'an is for reflection, so that when we hear it, as Allah says of the believers who hear the Qur'an recited, goose bumps come over their skins. It touches them and causes their heart to tremble : "Allah has revealed (from time to time) the most beautiful Message in the form of a Book, consistent with itself, yet repeating (its teaching in various aspects): the skins of those who fear their Lord tremble threat; then their skins and hearts do soften to the remembrance of Allah." 39:12
If when we listen to the Qur'an, we don't find this reaction of tears coming to our eyes, then we should force ourselves to cry. You may question why but it is because we need to respond to the Qur'an in this way. If we don't, we are frankly lost! This is the word of Allah, the only preserved word of all the revelations that were given from Adam till now. This is the word God preserved.